Is someone you know in danger?

If you know someone who is or may be in an abusive relationship, then this section is for you.

As a neighbor, co-worker, friend, or relative, you should be aware of the warning signs of a potentially abusive situation.

• Do you notice a change in the behavior of someone you know?  Do they seem distant or isolated?
• Does a friend or relative seem to be cutting off contact with you?
• Do they seem unduly concerned with the approval of a partner?
• Do they have to check with their partner to participate in social activities?
• Does their partner keep unusually close tabs on their activities and whereabouts?
• Do they not have control over spending their own money?
• Do you notice repeated unexplained injuries?
• Do you hear yelling, arguments and things crashing next door?
• Does a colleague or friend suddenly start missing work or school?
• Is there obvious tension in the relationship?
• Do you notice someone making fun of or humiliating their partner in front of others?

Warning signs of a potentially abusive personality:

• Blames others for their problems
• Needy, expecting their partner to take care of their feelings
• Jealousy and control of their partner
• Cruelty to animals or children
• Own identity is not clear
• Increased danger/lethality when using drugs or alcohol, with mental health issues or if have access to weapons
• Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde Personality
• Controlling behavior

What to do if someone you know is experiencing domestic violence.